True love stands out because true love is exceptional. True lovers are great persons because they have everything to accommodate and adjust with the needs and wants of each other. It is difficult but not impossible to find such love stories. Here is the commentary of my encounter of true love.
One of my friends and his girlfriend are in true love with each other, both-sided. Their love life is extraordinary. They could talk in many different languages: in their mother tongue i.e. Nepali, English, and their body language. I used to get amazed when I used to see them communicating from a distance with the help of eye, mouth and so on without producing a single sound. So, I used to think that the frequency at which their brains operate is same. Hence, both could communicate and understand each other from a distance. I would definitely call this love, a true one.
Moreover, their love didn’t involve excessive entertainment that most of the couples in love wish to engage in such as going to the cinema, restaurants, dance clubs, excursions, shopping and so on. So, their love was almost pure love or true love. While there is no harm in wanting to engage in such entertainment related activities, giving them the priority over your needs, and sometimes financial capabilities can lead to accidents in love relationship. In this world, where nothing is free, you should hope for the best and prepare for the worst. Indulging yourself in entertaining activities can prevent you from preparing for future career as well as uncertainties (or unexpected consequences). Thus, when you run into problem later you might have to face unanticipated difficulties and hurdles. That’s the time when your beloved one may leave you to find another partner because there’s nothing left with you now except problems and sorrows. If such incident would really happen then, you would regret for not preparing for this time. If your partner leaves you just because you can’t accompany him/her to enjoy the present moment, then it’s a proof that your partner wasn’t committed to you at all.
Therefore, the abstinence from entertainment is not in itself a signal of true love. But the dedication towards a better tomorrow at the cost of today’s enjoyment is definitely a sign of a long term commitment. Love stories should be sustainable, like the economies, to remain alive, forever.
One of my friends and his girlfriend are in true love with each other, both-sided. Their love life is extraordinary. They could talk in many different languages: in their mother tongue i.e. Nepali, English, and their body language. I used to get amazed when I used to see them communicating from a distance with the help of eye, mouth and so on without producing a single sound. So, I used to think that the frequency at which their brains operate is same. Hence, both could communicate and understand each other from a distance. I would definitely call this love, a true one.
Moreover, their love didn’t involve excessive entertainment that most of the couples in love wish to engage in such as going to the cinema, restaurants, dance clubs, excursions, shopping and so on. So, their love was almost pure love or true love. While there is no harm in wanting to engage in such entertainment related activities, giving them the priority over your needs, and sometimes financial capabilities can lead to accidents in love relationship. In this world, where nothing is free, you should hope for the best and prepare for the worst. Indulging yourself in entertaining activities can prevent you from preparing for future career as well as uncertainties (or unexpected consequences). Thus, when you run into problem later you might have to face unanticipated difficulties and hurdles. That’s the time when your beloved one may leave you to find another partner because there’s nothing left with you now except problems and sorrows. If such incident would really happen then, you would regret for not preparing for this time. If your partner leaves you just because you can’t accompany him/her to enjoy the present moment, then it’s a proof that your partner wasn’t committed to you at all.
Therefore, the abstinence from entertainment is not in itself a signal of true love. But the dedication towards a better tomorrow at the cost of today’s enjoyment is definitely a sign of a long term commitment. Love stories should be sustainable, like the economies, to remain alive, forever.
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