To understand what “true love” means, it is necessary to understand what “false love” means. So, to have some idea about false love, let us first seek the answer to the question, “Who engages in false love?” Just imagine (I'm asking you to imagine), who would like to engage in false love?
It is well known that people are selfish by nature. One way to define false love is to state it as the love relationship which is initiated to satisfy someone’s mere selfish desires which may even be detrimental (harmful) to their partner. Such love can be initiated by either parties, male or female, and for a number of reasons. Females can initiate it to enjoy the external life such as going on outing, visiting different places, going to the restaurants, shopping centers, and cinemas, preferably at the expense of her boyfriend’s money. Money is not the only target as some girls might have money but not a companion to enjoy external life. Either kinds of girls can begin a love relationship with a boy to meet their short-term purpose.
Similarly, males can also lure girls for money, especially if the girl’s parents are immensely rich; however, more practically boys might want to attract a girl to have sex. Apart from this reason they might begin a false love relation with a girl to learn her nature, or to just demonstrate their mates that they have a girlfriend. Similarly, there can be many psychological reasons, either known or unknown, for the people to engage in false love. Whatever the reasons be, false love is selfish in nature and it harms both the parties eventually.
You might be wondering how it harms both parties. First of all, their time will be wasted. However, this might not be the problem for them because their intention might be to kill time by doing one thing or the other. However, doing wrong things to kill time is certainly hazardous as it can lead to catching communicable as well as non-communicable diseases. (OMG! Not to mention the STDs!!)
Doing anything that exceeds our limit (capacity) is dangerous. Whether it is taking drugs, drinking or smoking, all these kinds of activities kill our precious time in a very short period of time such that killing time becomes unnecessary to us. Instead time will kill us as an avenge!
So, now let us define true love. True love is the opposite of false love. So, if there is high selfishness in false love then there is low level of selfishness in true love. Similarly, if false love means lack of dedication, then true love should mean high dedication towards the partner. Again, if there is no commitment in false love, then there is sincere commitment in true love.
Similarly, while false love is harmful, true love is quite helpful for both lovers. It can become a ladder to achieve success for both of them as they both can motivate each other to reach their aims. Thus, true love can directly help couples to become successful. Similarly, understanding and commitment between the lovers, keeps their social life healthy, thus the chances of mental stress are slim. Therefore, true love is very beneficial to both parties and hence, we encourage everyone to establish true love.
Update:
Now here's something interesting. I got an SMS from an unknown number (I mean I didn't know the sender and hence I didn't reply back). The SMS read like this:
"True Love is forever love; a love that never ends, as two hearts grow together as lover, partners and friends." - Unknown (Disclaimer: Edited for clarity.)
This is, I think, the real definition of True Love!
It is well known that people are selfish by nature. One way to define false love is to state it as the love relationship which is initiated to satisfy someone’s mere selfish desires which may even be detrimental (harmful) to their partner. Such love can be initiated by either parties, male or female, and for a number of reasons. Females can initiate it to enjoy the external life such as going on outing, visiting different places, going to the restaurants, shopping centers, and cinemas, preferably at the expense of her boyfriend’s money. Money is not the only target as some girls might have money but not a companion to enjoy external life. Either kinds of girls can begin a love relationship with a boy to meet their short-term purpose.
Similarly, males can also lure girls for money, especially if the girl’s parents are immensely rich; however, more practically boys might want to attract a girl to have sex. Apart from this reason they might begin a false love relation with a girl to learn her nature, or to just demonstrate their mates that they have a girlfriend. Similarly, there can be many psychological reasons, either known or unknown, for the people to engage in false love. Whatever the reasons be, false love is selfish in nature and it harms both the parties eventually.
You might be wondering how it harms both parties. First of all, their time will be wasted. However, this might not be the problem for them because their intention might be to kill time by doing one thing or the other. However, doing wrong things to kill time is certainly hazardous as it can lead to catching communicable as well as non-communicable diseases. (OMG! Not to mention the STDs!!)
Doing anything that exceeds our limit (capacity) is dangerous. Whether it is taking drugs, drinking or smoking, all these kinds of activities kill our precious time in a very short period of time such that killing time becomes unnecessary to us. Instead time will kill us as an avenge!
So, now let us define true love. True love is the opposite of false love. So, if there is high selfishness in false love then there is low level of selfishness in true love. Similarly, if false love means lack of dedication, then true love should mean high dedication towards the partner. Again, if there is no commitment in false love, then there is sincere commitment in true love.
Similarly, while false love is harmful, true love is quite helpful for both lovers. It can become a ladder to achieve success for both of them as they both can motivate each other to reach their aims. Thus, true love can directly help couples to become successful. Similarly, understanding and commitment between the lovers, keeps their social life healthy, thus the chances of mental stress are slim. Therefore, true love is very beneficial to both parties and hence, we encourage everyone to establish true love.
Update:
Now here's something interesting. I got an SMS from an unknown number (I mean I didn't know the sender and hence I didn't reply back). The SMS read like this:
"True Love is forever love; a love that never ends, as two hearts grow together as lover, partners and friends." - Unknown (Disclaimer: Edited for clarity.)
This is, I think, the real definition of True Love!
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