The things lovers should consider range from minute things to the important events of life such as marriage and career. If such things are not carefully thought out and planned by the lovers then their life will meet an accident soon.
Also the lovers have a false concept that only love is important in their life. While this idea is agreed by the lovers, it is too far-fetched to resemble the reality. We cannot eat love, wear love and live in love. In order to survive, our basic needs should be fulfilled. Moreover, lovers have great demands from their partner and without a decent job such demands cannot be fulfilled. Therefore, the lovers should consider other things as well in order to make their love life successful.
1. Marriage
Lovers should carefully think about their marriage. They should, in fact, plan when to marry and how to marry. They themselves should consider if their families will accept their marriage or not and make a strategy either to convince them or to marry themselves. If the lovers don't plan about their marriage, then they might have to face queries and opposition from their families. So, it is crucial to think about marriage and plan it.
2. Career
Love and career are the two sides of the same coin, i.e, two important aspects of a same person's life. Therefore, when one side is advanced the other one should not be left behind. What I mean is when you further your love life you should not sacrifice your career for it. Well, you can change your career but don't abandon it altogether. When talking about love many people mention the importance of sacrifice. In most of the cases, this is true for trivial things such as your cartoon-watching hobby or your hobby to play computer games whenever you get leisure. You must sacrifice some time from your hobbies to discharge the newly added responsibilities. However, don't give up career. You may freely adjust it to match it with your partner's career. However, just don't give it up completely.
Not only you mustn't give it up, you should allocate sufficient time to build it up. Some kind of commitment is necessary to achieve success in your career life. So, stay committed to both love life and your career. Don't undervalue one for another because both are equally important. Career is important because it is the basis to fulfill our rudimentary needs as well our wants.
3. Social Life
You should contemplate how your social life could be influenced by your marriage and love life. Some couples try to marry out of socially accepted norms and practices. At the point when you are trying to outwit the social values, you may think that you could survive comfortably even after being an outcast. However, never forget that when you give birth to your children you'll need relatives and especially grandparents to socialize them. Otherwise, they will have various psychological problems.
Since man is a social being, society is essential to full his social needs such as the need for recognition, prestige, social security (the feeling of being secured as a part of a society), social acceptance, etc. Therefore, you should consider the importance of society rather than being carried away by individualistic mentality.
In conclusion, lovers should carefully consider the pros and cons of each decision they make and move ahead carefully. Such carefulness will not only lead to success in love but also help to gain respect and acceptance in the society.
Also the lovers have a false concept that only love is important in their life. While this idea is agreed by the lovers, it is too far-fetched to resemble the reality. We cannot eat love, wear love and live in love. In order to survive, our basic needs should be fulfilled. Moreover, lovers have great demands from their partner and without a decent job such demands cannot be fulfilled. Therefore, the lovers should consider other things as well in order to make their love life successful.
1. Marriage
Lovers should carefully think about their marriage. They should, in fact, plan when to marry and how to marry. They themselves should consider if their families will accept their marriage or not and make a strategy either to convince them or to marry themselves. If the lovers don't plan about their marriage, then they might have to face queries and opposition from their families. So, it is crucial to think about marriage and plan it.
2. Career
Love and career are the two sides of the same coin, i.e, two important aspects of a same person's life. Therefore, when one side is advanced the other one should not be left behind. What I mean is when you further your love life you should not sacrifice your career for it. Well, you can change your career but don't abandon it altogether. When talking about love many people mention the importance of sacrifice. In most of the cases, this is true for trivial things such as your cartoon-watching hobby or your hobby to play computer games whenever you get leisure. You must sacrifice some time from your hobbies to discharge the newly added responsibilities. However, don't give up career. You may freely adjust it to match it with your partner's career. However, just don't give it up completely.
Not only you mustn't give it up, you should allocate sufficient time to build it up. Some kind of commitment is necessary to achieve success in your career life. So, stay committed to both love life and your career. Don't undervalue one for another because both are equally important. Career is important because it is the basis to fulfill our rudimentary needs as well our wants.
3. Social Life
You should contemplate how your social life could be influenced by your marriage and love life. Some couples try to marry out of socially accepted norms and practices. At the point when you are trying to outwit the social values, you may think that you could survive comfortably even after being an outcast. However, never forget that when you give birth to your children you'll need relatives and especially grandparents to socialize them. Otherwise, they will have various psychological problems.
Since man is a social being, society is essential to full his social needs such as the need for recognition, prestige, social security (the feeling of being secured as a part of a society), social acceptance, etc. Therefore, you should consider the importance of society rather than being carried away by individualistic mentality.
In conclusion, lovers should carefully consider the pros and cons of each decision they make and move ahead carefully. Such carefulness will not only lead to success in love but also help to gain respect and acceptance in the society.
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